istockphoto.com Q: Since buying our home 2 years ago, my partner and I have wanted to update the kitchen. But every time we start talking about the details of a renovation, an argument ensues. We can’t seem to agree on a style, materials, colors—anything! What can we do to come to a consensus and finally get this reno rolling? Negotiating design decisions with your partner can certainly seem impossible. In fact, a study conducted by the furniture company Article found that couples engaged in arguments about home renovation and decoration decisions about 72 times a year. As you probably know, there is no “right” way to decorate your home. Much…